Ok a conversation..more like a discussion I had with a friend inspired me to write this post...
He asked me 'Shruti, how do you think life would be at 40? Would it be better or worse?' ...to give you a background before narrating any further..both of us generally talk about how good life was when we were still in college before marriage,kids and responsibilities happened...so with that scenario in mind he asked me the question...
And I answered, 'What has age got to do with the way our lives go?...Our responsibilities, the attitude of our substantial halves, our life situation and opportunities are what decide our freedom and the flavor of life in general....so life could suck at 25 or rock at 50....age has got nothing to do with it'
And ofcourse then I gave him and also myself a peek into what life would be like personally for me 10 years down the lane..I would actually have more time for myself...I think:-)(no harm in that:-P)....kids would be more grown up and hopefully easier to manage...and I would be back in hyderabad...where my heart is..and I would set out to do things that make me happy and spend more time doing what my heart longs to.....not that my today is bad...but thats how I think it would be 10 years from now...looks good dont you think;-)
He asked me 'Shruti, how do you think life would be at 40? Would it be better or worse?' ...to give you a background before narrating any further..both of us generally talk about how good life was when we were still in college before marriage,kids and responsibilities happened...so with that scenario in mind he asked me the question...
And I answered, 'What has age got to do with the way our lives go?...Our responsibilities, the attitude of our substantial halves, our life situation and opportunities are what decide our freedom and the flavor of life in general....so life could suck at 25 or rock at 50....age has got nothing to do with it'
And ofcourse then I gave him and also myself a peek into what life would be like personally for me 10 years down the lane..I would actually have more time for myself...I think:-)(no harm in that:-P)....kids would be more grown up and hopefully easier to manage...and I would be back in hyderabad...where my heart is..and I would set out to do things that make me happy and spend more time doing what my heart longs to.....not that my today is bad...but thats how I think it would be 10 years from now...looks good dont you think;-)
3 comments:
yaa, i do agree wid u,Shruts. My opinion is the same...whts age got to do! one has to be young at heart
love ya
it is all the mind :)
Its definitely in the mind Deeps but there is also a situation when the people and the situation around you control your heart and mind and you have no chance to fight them...thats when things get desperate and claustrophobic..and eventually even our mind and heart are infected and suffer dejection.
Wow! that was a sad explanation..I am sorry abt that:-)...but its the truth sometimes.
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